No LL--we didn't discuss the annaversary timeframe. Just like T24now, I had a end-date that he wasn't aware of.
Actually, I decided to be more flexible because of something you told me about how if I waited, at least I'd know that he was READY to come home.
I also thought we were making progress.
About leaving things there--somewhat, but not alot. Mostly it's comments like "pretty soon, we'll be going home together after an MC session". Vauge things like that.