Was your H at all upset that you listened in when his phone accidently re-dialed you? If he was, then that would be more of an indicator that some of what he was saying with the other guy had some truth. Otherwise, if he understood your feelings about what you heard, then you might just want to chalk this up as guy talk.
You have a set back in your trust now. Is your H willing to continue to work so as to regain it?
Hi Kerry, Thanks for stopping by my thread. No, he wasn't upset at all, he didn't stammer in his answers, only seemed to play down the first part of the conversation. I guess I am struggling with the how do I trust him now after hearing that?
M:47 M:18 D16, S19 1st S 1/08-5/08 Reconciled/May 7, 2008 Left again Nov 9, 2009 I Filed: Nov 17, 2009 Final: April 14, 2010 EX walked away from kids too