There are times when I'm reluctant to post bad things on my thread for fear of bumming folks out...and there are times when I KNOW that a bunch of my "today angst" is MY reaction to someone else's thread...and I want to post THAT as a contributing factor but then I worry about making someone else feel bad...(like, it's not enough that John Smith is going thru a tough time but now I have to point to my reaction to that as a contributing factor to my crappy attitude?)
Anyway...MHO only but reading about your stresses and how you deal with them is a help to me.
Sage
oh sage,
if anyone here is the queen of "bumming people out" I'll take the cake...I'm always ranting and raving that's what I come here for.
as far as not posting the bad stuff because you don't want to bring anyone down??? oh sage...if you continously post nothing but the good stuff others will begin to think that if they aren't having it as great as you they must just not be doing it right. the bad and yuck has to come along with the good...we're not here to impress anyone with our wonderful r's...we're here to help eachother get through the muck that keeps us from having wonderful r's.
