Trying to let go........with love!

[Silent Chrleader]

OK, somebody tie me down!! I want so bad to call the co-worker that set my H up with her sister and tell her to back off!! This is a woman who I have met several times and had good conversations with. He father was a minister in the church that I grew up in (which is a very small clannish non-denominational one so it's like we were immediately related somehow).

Her husband also worked for my H briefly to help out while he was laid off from his normal job, so there is a connection there too. H refers to this co-worker as his "little sister" because she is very petite, but she is older than H.

This co-worker is the one that told the corporate CEO that she would never forgive him or respect him again because he had an affair, and eventually left his wife of 20+ and married the OW, who happened to be a corworker too. So, I know she has no idea that H had an affair with the secretary.

I don't want to call in a mean way. I would just like to tell her that H is going through a confusing time now and to please not help him cloud things in that fashion! I know she just thinks that we "grew apart" and are "amicably going our seperate ways" and that H is such a great guy, and her sister needs someone like him........

I know I can't call!!! But it's freakin' tearing me up!!!!