Tal, The thing is, you are right. You deserve better, you should definitely vent it out here. I dont think anyone disagrees. Maybe your new independence may shake up change in your sitch- who know? Maybe take a break- you need a recharge. He needs medicine and a new therapist! Only so much you can do here. Eventually, if you are both in love, he will come around but in the meantime, if he is down , i say you go elsewhere and have some fun without him! Shay
