I question, sometimes, if I have more of a WAS, MLC, menopause, All the above, or, a W who is just finished with me. I hate to "drag" her through this along with me.
RE: menopause, or whatever her physical female issues are (prolapsed uterus, etc?), please don't disregard or take it lightly. Your W is 43, and that is a pretty ripe time to have a lot of female problems. Two pregnancies most likely add to the dynamics of her physical female health. I may be a bit sensitive to her issues since I am dealing with the same sort of things. I wish I had addressed it long ago and had the support of my H to do it.
Things really do change, such as being sensitive to a touch. Tenderness where it never existed before. Pain when it used to be pleasure. Honest.
Oprah has had recent shows for 'women over 35', and has a webcast Thursday night. Can you offer information to your W?
Live your life while you are still living. Riding the trail less traveled.
