There are times when I'm reluctant to post bad things on my thread for fear of bumming folks out...and there are times when I KNOW that a bunch of my "today angst" is MY reaction to someone else's thread...and I want to post THAT as a contributing factor but then I worry about making someone else feel bad...(like, it's not enough that John Smith is going thru a tough time but now I have to point to my reaction to that as a contributing factor to my crappy attitude?)
Anyway...MHO only but reading about your stresses and how you deal with them is a help to me.
Sage
Relax. Appreciate. Be calm. Laugh. Enjoy. Be secure. Be loving. Be loved. Don't personalize. Don't ASSume. Accept. Be grateful.