Ready2Change (9) Divorce Papers Signed

[Ready2Change]

It sounds like you really do have control of your life life. That's great. So do you think there is still a chance she will come back in the future? Or have you decided whatever happens happens? Are you moving on then but leaving the door open?Kevin

Hi Kevin,

Thanks for stopping in.....

I have full control of my life. I have full control of raising my kids during my parenting time. IT IS GREAT!!!

I don't think she will come back. I am moving on. I will always do my best with what I know. What is best for my kids??? "To have two loving parents as role models". I have full control of my thoughts, words and actions. I can not control W. I can just be a good role model......I have faith that she will have a change of heart (based on human nature), but I can not let that stop me. She may not. I have accepted that.

I am working on me. I know what I need/want out of a R. If W comes back, I will have lots of boundaries and requirements before I take her back, I will let her choose if she is willing to do the work....

I am moving on. I will date women. I will have my boundaries. I will be aware of the red flags. I am not looking for a committed R with other women, rather just getting out, having fun and enjoying who they are as well as enjoying the moments we spend together......Practice Practice, Practice....