Trixi, What an interesting comment that totally hit home! That's my H. Thanx.

In fact, I think the main "rules" of an alcoholic household are "Don't Talk, Don't Trust, Don't Feel"

Me39, XH45
Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats
Divorced 6/4/09
Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)