Is the answer blowing in the wind?

[Trixi]

Thanks Volleydog. I was feeling temporarily confused because H said he would make sure the house was 'clean'. And he said that RM admitted to being a jerk to SS. So, I know that in H's mind, it was enough. (ie, RM would be "nice")

But you are so right that unless the RM is actually GONE and H is in *recovery*, SS needs to be elsewhere. H is currently 'sober' because he has stopped smoking, drinking, etc, BUT he is NOT in recovery by any stretch.