Ok, there is self pity.."Why is she doing this to poor little me?"
And that is lame.
And then there is self loathing..."I hate to "drag" her through this along with me."
I'd rather deal with self pity because all that takes is a few verbal 2x4's hopefully.
Self Loathing usually takes a few visits to a C and time and money.
IF she was a true WAS, from my point of view as a former WAH, she would be gone, you wouldn't talk, because she would want 'nothing' to do with you except to talk about the legal niceties of how to cut any ties to you.
It's good you are looking into the mirror, just don't imagine a monster when you see a man that you can improve upon.
MLC buzz words:
numb, I don't love you the way I should, I don't love you like_______ (fill in the blank), I don't know what I want.
Menopause? I don't know. Don't have the parts and my wife has not yet hit it.
But WAS? I could very well be wrong, but rememebering what I felt? No I don't think she is a WAS.
Before you ask...right click on my name, go to view posts and find it somewhere in the 5000 + posts...it will kill some time for you and I don't feel like re-hashing.
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
