Good stuff Tal--very important to look at all the LL's!! I'm so happy for you--keep things in perspective and keep doing what you're doing-it is working!!! I know about tempers too, my H can get very loud when provoked and I know how to push those buttons very well--did it last night without really trying and then when he gets loud, it's best to leave him alone--but I'm a talker and always want to talk it out--when H called today to apologize (see my thread)--in his message he reminded me of how he gets when he's angry and that I should know by now to back off and let him cool off. Wouldn't that be a huge 180 for me next time if I actually do that!!! I too have never been frightened that he will hurt me physically with this anger, but it is still a bit intimidating nonetheless...I don't like confrontation and that is the bottom line for me. Hang in there-everything in your sitch sounds really good!
