TOH... Please take the time and secure your future finances...this is very important step to follow thru with...I remember that he comes and helps out with money and worlk around the property but if he is out there spending get it secured for your self and peace of mind.
I know that it is hard not to focuse on the OW...try not to..she did not get the best part of the H...she is getting sloppy seconds and that is all she deserves...all the other women ex was with did not mean a thing to me...I was very strong when it came to that...thank God..and there were so many..except Prostitue junkie girlfriend and really there is no comparasion...there are just getting a man that was once a great person and we had the best..
You are doing great to move on keep it up hoaw is the painting going...what else do you do? i know that you live in a small town do you ever get together with other women that are your friends? Start a goal list that is always helpful to guide your future endeavors...kee moving forward.. ITSY
M54 H54 married 30 years Prostitues and Other women "100's" 10/7/2004 Prostitue/Junkie girlfriend 6/04-1/07? Left 1/5/05 returned 1/9/05 Asked h to leave 4/2005 Had to, prostitues OW 5/2005 not a prostitue Divorced 9/2006