Although I have gotten closer with my youngest D9, it seems like I'm getting more distant from my oldest D17, she is becoming more selfish, like her Mother and probably closer to to her as long as she keeps buying her cloths and giving her money. Of coarse now they were each others cloths so I guess they serve a dual purpose. I admit, I have had a very tough putting a fake smile on with how she has been treating me but I will give it a valient effort. Thanks for the advise.