I agree with Shiny, Tal. H is patterning his responses to be different, a 180 if you will--that is certainly good!!! That curiosity stuff always gets the better of us!! I'd like to think that someday H will say he was glad I didn't give in or give up on us, as I patiently await his return. I'm so happy for you Tal-you guys are really doing well with your communication and working through things!!! Keep up the good work!!!