I don't think I have any special insight, skill, or knowledge. For those of you that helped me through the bomb and separation -- THANK YOU! For those of you I may not know and are continuing to fight for your marriages -- I think I can offer an example of hope.
For those of you that may not be familiar with my story - I thought my marriage was over, I was less than an hour from a court date that would have finalized it, and had plans move to a new city, new job, new life. But here I am. Here WE are. My loving, darling, beautiful wife and I. The odds are long and the challenges are difficult. But success is possible - in a restored marriage, or in a brighter new future yet undefined.
My heart goes out to everyone who is reading this, because we all know a pain that is difficult to imagine. But it isn't the end. It can be a new beginning.