Sorry, I didn't mean to imply that my H was back in the sense that we're cohabitating again...because we're not.
What I meant by "back" is that he's back in my life for the past few months and NOT in anyone else's. He is working on reconciliation (although at his speed and in his way) along with me.
Whether or not H and I will make it all the way to living under the same roof again, is still up in the air.
Let those tongues wag...and remember it comes from their OWN fear that it could OR might be happening to them...so it's easier for them to look at YOUR life (of which they know nothing) than to take to close a look at their own.