Wow...Jeff, I'm so sorry...I know the mixed emotions you are facing and feeling...what a relief/yet sorrowful outcome. I agree with the girls...you will be happy again! You deserve it! The ride isn't over but maybe you can see light at the end of the tunnel?!

I'm here for you always...you know that...

You have been such a support to all of us...you know we're all here for you whenever you need us.

I'm glad you will still be going to see the C with W...I think that you both need that to help with the tasks ahead and with closure if that's where this path leads you.

Telling the kids won't be easy, but kids are resiliant and bounce back quickly. I remember when my parents told me they were getting a D...I remember being very angry and upset about it and then remember helping my dad sort things out in the garage the same day...I think it was his way of helping me come to terms with things and we divided things up into both sides of the garage. Other than that, I don't remember much about the D...I never thought they would get back together...nor did I wish it...I was 13. I don't even remember things being bad between them through the years prior, except that my mom slept on the couch alot...never heard them fight or have arguments in front of us. Anyway, my point is...the kids will be able to adjust. They need to know you both love them no matter what and that you are both there for them always....they will be fine.

Hugs...you know where to reach me...you are in my thoughts and prayers.

((((((((((((Jeff)))))))))) I'm so sorry.

BA


Me:43
H:48
M:24 yrs T: 26 yrs
2 kids
ILYNILWYA 8-07 - MOW 9-07
H moved out 8-2-08 Back 8-18-08
Affair continues
Back home but not emotionally