So what are you doing to change that? You need to do some GAL stuff -- join something, DO something. What are your interests?
Puppy
Good questions. I joined a support group to assist me in my journey. I figured out that gutting it out on my own was not going to work. The group helps. I have established much better communications with 3 of my adult children. One is relatively close so I have an opportunity to regularly that family which includes 3 grandchildren. I had neglected them for far too long.
I happen to like doing a lot of things -- house or yard projects, building or repairing things. Honestly, my interest and energy level have been lacking. At some point I will renew those activities. Right now somethings are can always wait for tomorrow.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09