kat727

"{Step away from the situation as much as you can}"

I am doing my best not to be ensnared. I basically go to work, go home and sleep, and go to work again. Life is pretty one dimensional, but that is OK for now. About the only unsolicited call(s) I have received from HER concerned her needing money. Nice to pegged with the Johnny PayCheck roll.

I am absolutely shocked by HER behavior. That being said, you folks can look at it and say the signs, behavior, etc have always been there.

I am on this site for support also. My family is 2300 miles away. I allowed any potential friends to be stripped away years ago. Locally, I have no confidantes -- so these unbiased replies I get help immensely.


BS (me) 57
WW (her) 51
M - 27+ years
Sons - 34/21
daugh - 32/26
D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08)
Status - minimal contact (me)
living with OM (her)
Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09