I'm hoping I haven't ruined what we started to build back.
You will have setbacks. Keep trying.
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Yes, I'm being selfish and want all of it to be golden now and not later.
You will need lots of patience. Both of you.
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Just curious if this is normal or is there more underlying to her anger for me for what I called her and wanting her being the way she was before I said what I said out of anger.
Her anger could be from guilt and fear. If you can make up your mind to give her true forgiveness you will need to show her. You will also need to set aside your fear of what she "may have done."
That comes with true forgiveness.
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But usually by now she's told me how it hurt her and most of the time it only takes a couple of days. If that. That's why I'm a bit concerned.
Things aren't "normal" right now. Stop having expectations. You can't compare your R now to how it was in the past.
Relax, be positive and try to let go of the past. Concentrate instead on your future.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
