MWG!! That is hard to imagine but delightful... There is some middle ground between drink throwing rage.. and the flash fire anger and the self destructive grudge nurturing that keeps LBS from focusing on themselves and what to do next.
Your anger was instant and honest, not the festering gurgling sort that is toxic to a family or a couplehood.
I am against faking feelings or game playing to manipulate. I think we should revisit 'honesty' and go that route with our partners. Nothing harsh, just real. MWG, I think you are doing that lately.
FG, your thread is running away without you. Sorry.