Ok, I am here, now what?

[whitneypinch]

Thanks so much for your help.
I have calmed down about the anger. The truth is we all change hour by hour.One hour we are angry, sad, happy, scared, etc.
I have flirted with her in the past and she shut me down. I flirted with her a few days ago and she was kind of receptive about it.
She has mentioned recently that it would be ok for us to talk about stuff and to even get together. Her reference to getting together was sort of to talk about the kids etc. I don't think it is for us to go and have fun but maybe I am not seeing the baby step here.
Since you have read the books and I have not can you offer examples of signs that women want to be asked out?

Thanks again,
Greg