Seems a common theme here that once we move forward we don't come back to much. I'm not sure about (or the others doing the same) but the help from others that had been through this or were further down the road than me when I came was invaluable to me. Therefore, I try and stop by still dailly and see if some of those I have been with have updated and need some support (or 2x4s in GM's case). Sort of payback time for me. I remember the pain all to well and if I can help one person ease some of that it will be worth me stopping by.
Not sure if were friends elsewhere but I'm easy to find. On a few others and guess what ??? I'm Arthur !!! lol