H called once late last night. C said we should only do what we feel like and nothing for the R. So I have no issues with him calling or not and he sounded friendly so we a nice chat and that was all. He asked me if I have done the exercises and I told him I have all except one. He joked a bit about it and then we talked about the kids.
I still have fear in me. FG says that is good, Ian says it is not. I think in my case fear is making me try harder but I am not clear I will know when to stop trying and quit. That is why the 8 weeks seem womderful to me now. I'll post some later about what I am afraid of. K