Quote: This is what I came up with. I hope it makes sense:
I am writing this down so you can read it in your own time. I don’t want to bring it up face-to-face because I don’t want you to feel blind-sided and go into “fight or flight” mode. I want to discuss something that I am fairly emotional about, and I don’t want to run the risk of starting a big argument. Tal, TOO LONG,and is attacking him, try agin, I don't read much loving in the letter. Perhaps these are issues that could be handled in short emails, that way you have proof of what he agrees to, and he knows he did agree to it.
I hate to say it, sometime women take leaps of logic, and the guy did not know he agreed to it.