6 years? I guess that's right. Mine was right about that time too. In some ways it seems like a lifetime ago...in others, way too recent.
I know what you mean. It's funny the way it feels.
After all this time, I still have dreams about my ex. Like nothing happened, or like we're together trying to make a go of things. WTH? I think it has something to do with us getting along over this past year. Seems to be a pattern that I have good dreams when times are good. Somewhere inside of me, I still have compassion and kindness for him, despite all that crap that happened.
But it is amazing that we are still getting along. Maybe we're just more settled and secure now, so we can be at ease? It's a theory at least.
Anyway, it seems like a long time ago, a different person than who I am today. But there are days when it seems like just yesterday.
Regarding the kids... S14 still has a ways to go, but I know what you mean about them begin grown up. I am so proud of S22. It's amazing that a person that grown-up and together could come from that M that ended so badly. And maybe there is still hope for S14 too?
BTW, you don't know what Gray is Mister! I've been gray for years. I just hide it well! LOL (but you'll always be OLDer than me! Hee Hee!)
Me 47 Ex H 46 Bomb 9/02 D final 3/04 Ex H now married to OW
------------ This is surviving. There is no such thing as a normal life, there's just life. So get on with it and enjoy it!
