There shouldn't BE any "argument." He should simply let her know what his boundaries are, and that he's willing to do whatever he needs to do in order to protect himself.
You got it right Puppy, there "shouln't be" but she will put up one heck of an argument to make him look like the bad guy, and that was what I wanted him to think about. To the WAW, he has been the one who has wronged her by snooping into her private....excuse the word....affairs. She will act outraged by the whole ordeal, so be prepared. Have your case ready, so to speak. Don't "aruge" and do protect yourself. Just be prepared for her re-action to what you have done to try to shift the guilt.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
