It's not just me finding out, it's him being brave enough to really look inside. Wolfie is admitting to himself for the first time that he really wants and needs someone and that he's terrified of being hurt.

I hope it will be a relief to him. I know it is a relief to me, cuz I sometimes it used to feel like I couldn't affect him on anything but a surface level. I know different now, but these are the tender areas...the places to be very careful with.