It doesnt matter at this moment though, you still need to continue to focus on you and your wonderful girls.
That's my plan!
xH isn't slowly defogging. In fact, every day I see him taking steps further away from me. He might have some regrets down the road, but he won't turn around.
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I, on the other hand, became consumed with anger there for awhile. It is slowly fading and things STBXH does now no longer affect me. That is the beauty of detachment....and you are a pro!
I still have tons of anger, it comes and goes quicker these days. Much less, but its still there, don't you worry!
I do feel detached. The things I learn about xH these days (whatever it may be, him house hunting, him buying things without me, etc) used to crush me. Now, they barely phase me.
Him being with other women? Still hard, but it is what it is, right?
