Well, i know we have all been badly hurt by WASs actions and words. Actually, I think H's words hurt me more than his actions.
But...IF we believe they are sick, possibly mentally ill during this time, or at least very lost and hurting, then we can let go, if not forget.
I have to say that while I can understand the terrible pain of seeing your WAS in church w/OW, it is good that they are there, you know? Do not let it make you bitter. I would be happy if I knew H set foot in a church.
M: 16 years Bomb 4/07 OW 20s long gone Divorced 11/09 I remarried New Guy Cooperative r w/X regarding D