Yes I would say Run Forrest but hop on a bus, it's faster! I know what it is like to have so much time invested and all the love that has been there. I will be honest, I have never stopped loving the man I married but I have no like or interest in this alien that he has become. Our family deserves so much more.
This site has helped me tremendously. It help to know that you are not alone. Give yourself time to heal, time to discover the you that you have put on the back burner. Step away from the situation as much as you can so that you can make a decision with a clear head and heart.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory