I don't think I've ever posted to you but have followed your thread off and on. I remember several times you mentioned the "business" like voice and tone your H uses with you. Mine does the same thing and it's almost scary, certainly hurtful. Sometimes I just want to shake him and say - I've known you since you were 22 years old! Why are you talking to me like this?
I also vote NO to loaning him the money. Use that same business voice he uses with you. Two can play at this!
Stay Strong.
Me 56 H 47 Married 21 years No children Bomb & moved out 4/07 "My feelings have changed" & "I want to live by myself". Ow Bomb 8/07 H filed 6/08 D final 2/05/10
