Would it have any effect if you emailed and asked him nicely to have more consideration for you D's feelings? Say it would be best if she was eased into an R with his new gf, not dropped head-first? Especially since he is not yet divorced from her mother?
WTH is wrong with this man?! He is a chaplain, right? If he has counseled any families in crisis, he has GOT to know what this kind of sh*t does to kids!
I'm sorry he's such a butthead, HM. Wish I could kick his arse for you.
