Wife have moved out with my son..........now what

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Carlos and V
Sometimes it's just sad to see out spouses are not all there, but again what else can we do for them.......absolutely nothing.

Carlos and Coach are so right. The way we focus on them sometimes are just wasted energy, mind as well use them on us to do something positive in our lives.

Coach has another great post today as usual....we got to love and take care of ourselves. Without doing this, we are in no position to take our love ones when needed.

I love how Carlos posted on his. 'Controlling is overrated'....that's so true. Instead of focusing on what outcomes that we want/need, just let them run through its natural path and accept the restult. Otherwise, the other person and us will just never learn.

All these being said, they are just so darn tough sometimes. I just need to retrain the brain, work in progress for life....

On the lighter note, I think I gain at least 10 pounds from all the food from past several days. I need to work extra hard at gym to keep my girly figure....LOL

NW626