NC, Congrats to your boys!!! That's amazing that he did so well. It does sound like he has a possible future in car design or engineering or something like that! And the Batmobile car sounds very cool, too.
Sorry to hear about Paisley. The one consolation is I guess when you tell your boys you can tell them they are together in heaven now, happy and healthy, which I truly believe.
I'm sorry to hear about your wife still acting like that. I have to believe some of that comes from guilt or something. I know it's so hard not to react when they spew and attack, but I'm going to try to do that. Try to email as much as possible and just ignore the attacking ones. I've been doing that for a week now, and so far so good, so we'll see I guess.
The one thing about the 3rd party referee is that you never know. My H sometimes is so 100% stubborn about stuff, but is much more willing to listen to an objective person, b/c I think he thinks kind of like your wife that we're just motivated by spite or evil or whatever thought processes they have. Sometimes someone else maybe they listen to better, b/c I think sometimes they don't listen to us that well? Plus, my H always I think wants to look like a good, reasonable nice guy to others (not to me of course) so to do that he acts more agreeable to maybe. So you never know, although yeah, it might not work out. ((((NC)))) Karen
