Correct me if I am wrong, but I don't think you married her to be a "parent" to her. If she has never been made accountable for the stuff she is pulling, or she has never acted in a responsible fashion, I say good riddance.

Of course, only you can decide that, but I wouldn't take that for as long as you have. I understand love, but this is punishment.

kat

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