Update:

NO contact from OM, no hang up calls. I think he's done.

Found out that a friend of a guy I went out with while separated is friends with some high school friends. The biggest gossips of the school. Worried about them talking. I'm suppose to see a whole bunch of my old classmates this summer. Makes me not want to go.

Still dealing with the fallout of my decisions. Again, would have been easier to divorce and blame it all on our "bad marriage". I would have looked a whole lot better. Now, I look like the cheater that I was. It's worth it to be with my H now, but I've lost my reputation. Makes me want to move away.