Next thing to do is go out and get some rose petals, bubble bath, candles.............sounds great to me!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Thanks so much for the encouragment. It will be hard though, a brand new bed with memory foam pillows all to myself. H asked if I could keep everyone off his pillow.
Now I am sure he meant the kids. They love to curl up in our bed and be cuddly. Oh well if/when h decides to come home he can enjoy his half of the bed.
I love the idea of the rose petals and sexy undies. Hmmmmm I am thinking a babysitter needs to be in the works.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
I hope the new bed isn't too comfotable, we don't want you dropping straight off to sleep and missing..... well what ever action may take place.
I just love my new bed and it's quite old now, but a good bed makes a huge difference to how you wake in the morning if that makes sense. Enjoy it whatever happens or doesn't.
Thanks Naej. This was a well needed bed. The other was 14 years old. Got it after I split from my first h. It was a good mattress back in the day, but today it needs to be replaced.
The new one arrives next Friday. I can't wait. With this old bed I have backaches and neck aches. I told h we needed a new mattress and he agreed, so encouraged me to go search.
I can't wait to get my first good sleep in the bed.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"
All quiet in my sitch. H came over yesterday. We had a nice day. It is interesting. He says he can't wait to sleep on the new mattress.
Jokingly he said, "I am going to hang a sign on our bedroom door that says kids you are on your own, then I am going to lock the door and go to sleep."
Now this is why I said hmmmm break the mattress in whatever that means. To h that could be sleeping. Oh well whatever it means it seems positive none the less.
H should be here soon, to meet s7 after school. Next week he will be in FL for 4 days. He will be missed.
Me 50 H 42 S 22 S 9 D 7 M 12 T 17 H moved out 8/2006 H moved home 1/2007 for 3 weeks H moved home 5/2011 for good
"Learn from yesterday ~ Live for today ~ And hope for tomorrow"