Had brief Conversation with her today. Had to call her to ask her to get in and sign the BK papers so they don't dismiss the case. She called back and I asked her if she would be capable of us having a conversation tonight to resolve financial affairs.

She said yes and I told her things were a mess and we need to resolve some things . She agreed. I also asked her to make a comittment to stop with all of the OM activity as we are married. "can you make that committment?" Silence... She says "Jeff I want a divorce." Upgrading from a separation now...

I told her I didn't want to talk about that as I had things to do. We can talk tonight.. She kind of huffed and I let her go.

So we are signing BK papers this afternoon at the same time. So any words of wisdom on communication after that. No doubt there will be some talk then..

Suggestions?

***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***

Me: 43
W: 38
SD-15
S(s): 12,9,7
Separated-2/14/2009
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