Sorry to hear that..... :S I don't think I will do that for myself, as when he was home I was packing........ ( got boxes and everything )If he didn't get that I was serious, then there's nothing else I can do.
I hope for you that doesn't happen, OR if it does you find peace with it.
I understand totally when you say that you each have love for one another but not as a husband and wife should. Ughh... That's what makes it so hard. Be easier if we didn't love them.