A Cry for Help & Don't know where to go

[Sugar and Spice]

SRTTF please let me stress and echo the posts of both Puppy and Hope. To DB is hard enough, DB'ing and addict, let alone and addict who is entangled in an A is near to impossible. Do yourself and your kids a favor and focus on you and your kids and what you need to make your life healthy and happy. This was a hard lesson for me to learn, but its been the most beneficial. Even if you do ever "understand" his addiction, it won't change the behavior. Until he is ready to make that change, nothing you say or do will convince him otherwise. Protect yourself financially and legally and GAL. I'm not advocating that you give up, I'm saying that unless or until the addictions have been dealt with or even addressed, there is no working on your M. So do the right things for you and your kids. I know its tough and probably not what you want to hear, I know I sure didn't, but its the best advice I can give you. Keep posting here too, it helps and there are so many here that understand.