I agree that it may turn into a sexual thing. And, I agree that you should confront her before it goes any farther. However, what she is going to hit you with is your snooping and the fact that nothing has been sexual and that they are just friends and she had to have somebody to talk to. So, what arugment will you have then? True that she should not have a friendship that does not include you if it is with the opposite sex, but you snooped into her private business. How will you defend that? Just wondering. We haven't heard back from you in a few days, so how are things going by now? Did you confront her?
Sandi
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
