But "decades"???? My question for you, is your image of what you want this woman to be the aberration, or is her recent behavior?
Puppy [/quote]
I think the honest answer to your question (at the end of the day) is I created an illusion of a person and used that illusion to overlook a lot of BS. You are asking me was she/has she always been the way she currently is. With the exception of the magnitude which manifest itself 10 years ago, and did the recent repeat -- Yes.
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09