Until she settles down. I need to control the situation.
I hurt for her and have NEVER seen her like this.
I will wait and see what happens next.
Jeff
If you sequester the finances, and let her know that you did, I'd counsel you to be prepared for The Wrath of God from her.
But unlike the TRUE GOD's wrath, hers will blow over. This is a great opportunity to begin to operate from a new paradigm:
In every situation with which you are faced, strive to do the right thing. The very thing that God Himself would have you do if He were standing right in front of you. No matter how difficult, how uncomfortable, how scary.
No longer operate from a position that many of us (including me!!!) do of, "How will SHE react? How will HER reaction make ME feel? Will she be angry with me?"
Do NOT just do this out of spite -- it has to be THE RIGHT THING TO DO.
It sounds like an amazingly simple concept, but yet's it's not. Well, check that: it IS simple; it's just not EASY.
But it IS liberating . . . I will promise you that. It will change your life forever, regardless of what happens with your wife.
