Good question and the short answer is I don't know. Folks, I am still confused -- although not as badly as when this thing took off. I've about worn my welcome out with my sister -- get support from her, but it is wearisome when I am fixated on one subject.
Anyway, I am here for that BIG REALITY check. And if it takes folks hitting me over the head, then hammer away.
Thanks for the comments
BS (me) 57 WW (her) 51 M - 27+ years Sons - 34/21 daugh - 32/26 D-day - (A#1 Apr 98) (A#2 Oct 08) Status - minimal contact (me) living with OM (her) Divorce - Scheduled for Apr 09
