IBut XW can sense when I detach and can play the d5 card.
That's harsh CZ. Well at least you get to talk to D5
Stick at it buddy. Don't follow MY lead though, see below
The more I have read the DB and DR books (got them in the post 2 days ago), the more I realise how badly I have done
Begged, yep Pleaded, yep Cried, yep at first and then last week Showed photos of happy times, yep Pursued via contact, yep Constant R talk, yep
There's no bloomin wonder she's had enough of me. BTW, that is all over the last 5 months, not just recently.
W still tells me I appear needy, not just FOR her but for support and assistance. Well, I gotta agree with her there, as I have a LOT of crap going on with the bankruptcy and the car being repo'd, the knocks on the door etc etc. W is just sitting pretty in her new little house with no worries. Damn right I need someone to talk to. Problem is, I have ONLY JUST realised that she is the WRONG person to talk to <face palm>. That's waht she ran away from as well as me.
Soooooo, I will now become Mr Aloof. Talk to others and NOT her and see where that goes. At least I won't get grief of others the same as I get off her and that will be good for me.
Apologies to all other DA members for my lack of style in dealing with my own sitch. I hereby promise to make amends, and I NEVER break promises.
