My worst fears confirmed! Wife having EA/PA...

[Vdad]

Update,

She has been gone two nights now. Told my oldest SD15 we were going to live in two houses. Can't afford that.

OM she was having EA with..She called him on Sat night while at GF house. I blocked the number. She is now communicating with yet ANOTHER old HS friend (how the first EA started) and spending an hour a pop on the phone. There seems to be no end to her need for this OM drug. He is single as well.

The kids are wondering what's going on. She is trying to find a house to rent. We are currently in a Chapt. 13 Bankruptcy.

She is spiralling out of control. I have moved most of the money we have into a new account at my bank until she settles down.

I have to get some boundaries in place or shes going to blow us up. Am I off track here?

Keep in mind I just confronted her about affair on Sat. afternoon. SHe hasn't been back to the house since. Supposedly she will be back this afternoon, but unknown after that.

I feel like I have to get control of the situation as she is clearly only motivated by her desires, whatever it takes. I don't know this woman, never seen her before.

Thought? I know the post is a bit hectic but what the heck?

Jeff