I hear you Red. We told our son yesterday and it was so hard to just keep saying that "mommy and daddy cannot get along with each other so we need to live in different houses". Really, Mommy can't get along with Daddy b/c he lies and disrespects her and doesn't honor his commitment to her...But yes that is bad to tell them, so we go with the party line...

I hope you are doing things that make you happy. Thought of you yesterday at church. The youth pastor was telling the kids how we are tools that can be used for great things if we put ourselves in God's hands....but at one point she told the kids, "We are all tools" and it made me think of the loser guy you met out dancing.... ;\) I KNOW she didn't mean THAT kind of tool...

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Together: 18 yrs
M-12.5 yrs
S-8
D-4
D'd: Feb. 2010

The LORD your God is with you,
he is mighty to save. --Zeph. 3:17