I understand the selfishness factor too. I feel constant guilt over doing things just for me. I end up leaving my invalid mother and my autistic son at home to fend for themselves while I go have a life of my own for a few hours. My son could care less, but I do. My mom, on the other hand, is the all-time points leader in laying guilt trips!

Like doctors always say to those who sit bedside with a sick person, you will be doing them no good if you don't take care of yourself and get healthy. Same thing with emotional wellbeing.


T19 M15 S19 XH47 M43
bomb12/4/07
PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
confused....to say the least!!!